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How to get over your ex
Breakup rituals for the brokenhearted
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Cosplaying heterosexuality
How to deal when people think you are straight
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House of mirrors
How to break free from the gender that everyone expects you to be
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How can I tell if I’m in the right relationship?
Don’t take it from me, take it from Ariana Grande
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T4T 4ever
It’s time to start f*cking other trans people
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Medical transition or nah?
Biology, gender, and the myth of certainty
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How to not die when practicing poly
Is ethical non-monogamy the answer to your relationship problems?
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Coming out is still political
The burden and the gift of letting others in
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Let's talk about "passing"
On being accidentally stealth, the conundrum of trans disclosure, and desire beyond androgyny
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Blowjobs, compliments, and sex with t-boys
An R-rated guide for trans boys and our lovers
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How to have the conversation you've been avoiding with your partner
Femme invisibility in relationships with trans guys, telling your partner you want to bone other people, etc.
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Anger is medicine and so are orgasms
Being mad in a good way, t-dicks cumming, and also fuck Target
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